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The first date went well, and now we’ve planned to meet again. Great news! However, the second date is like a new first date, with slightly different rules. Here are five tips to make it a success (and pave the way for a third, fourth date, and potentially even marriage and kids).
Switch Up Your Outfit and Venue
It might seem obvious, but it’s worth mentioning: we all have our favorite black sweater that we’d wear on repeat if we could. However, the second date is the perfect opportunity to reveal another facet of ourselves. If you opted for a business look on the first date with a neat blouse, it might be nice to show a more casual, sporty side now (even if that’s more your everyday style). This is also a good chance to dial up the allure (sending a few flirty signals) if you played it safe with a turtleneck the first time around, just in case your date was a bit eccentric. Similarly, even if the first bar was delightful—from the menu to the server—it’s beneficial to switch settings and see each other in a new environment. This change can spark fresh conversation topics (like missing the previous server) and help create new memories.
Engage Your Memory
On the first date, if they mentioned landing a job interview, show that you were paying attention by asking how it went. Also, inquire about how their volleyball weekend turned out. Dare to ask new questions; after all, you’re there to learn more about each other. The major faux pas? Repeating questions from the last time—like asking what they do for a living or what their cat’s name is again. It’s embarrassing to forget that it was named Widget and that he’s a real estate agent (the person, not the cat).
Avoid Pressing for Marriage (Again)
You wisely avoided the topic on the first date because it’s known to scare some people off. You might have hinted at wanting a serious relationship, which is enough since expressing your values is what really matters. On the second date, there’s no need to overdo it (no need to assure them of your marriage plans) or to ask all the questions you held back last time: so, do you want to get married? Romantic connections develop gradually. There’s no need to plan too far ahead when you don’t even know their favorite dish yet.
Set Up the Third Date
While you’re together, seize the moment to avoid the anxious thoughts of tomorrow—should I call, or not? Discuss the latest movies or plan a cinema outing for the next week. Or talk about an interesting exhibition, a nice park to stroll through in the early sunshine, or a new bar to check out. With so many ideas, you’re already on your way to the next date.
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Nora Caldwell brings over a decade of experience in entertainment journalism to the Belles and Gals team. With a background in celebrity interviews and TV critiques, Avery ensures that every story we publish is engaging and accurate. Passionate about pop culture, they lead our editorial team with creativity and precision.
